Readers in the Rough: A Guide to Great Reading for 2023

 

Birthe, Catie, Kim, Kathy, Heather, Tammy, Pam
Rowena, Susan, Letty
Christmas Party
We toasted to our December book THE LITTLE PRINCE

Our book club, Readers in the Rough, began meeting in the summer of 2017. We normally meet to discuss the books at The Trails Golf Course in Norman, Oklahoma, consequently, the beautiful view of the golf course prompted our book club title,  "Readers in the Rough."  We rate our books based on the language of golf and quality of literature. This rating system has been revised and discussed from time to time, as nothing is quite perfect.  We absolutely enjoy our lively book discussions and ramblings about life, and like the game of golf we read and discuss for fun and friendship.

Hole-in-One = 5 points; Eagle= 4 points; Birdie= 3 points; Par= 2 points; Bogey= 1 point; and double bogey receives no points, no applause, no recommendations. 

A Par rating meets the expectation of the elements of fiction: a solid plot, strong and dynamic characters, setting that is defined, a theme we can discuss along with a point of view that lends itself to telling the story, and strength of genre. A Par rating for memoir asks for a compelling story using truth, theme, voice, point of view being I, and an ongoing attempt to arrive at answers. A birdie, eagle, hole-in-one all meet this standard and go above. 

At the end of each monthly discussion we talk through the rating briefly giving books thumbs up or down, or sometimes we gently struggle and argue between ratings, based on our perceptions. In the end, the majority wins with the votes. Ironically, our Hole-in-One and Eagle rated books are usually unanimous. 

In 2022 our reading travels took us from Africa; to the Pink City of Jaipur India; Nebraska to NYC; Oxford, England; Bombay (Mumbai, India); the Sunset Strip in Los Angeles; New York City to J.P. Morgan's vast wealth of books and art. A pleasant and eye opening trip to Iceland intrigued us deeply, where we learned how women had gained in the political narrative. We then traveled to Paris back to back with Hemingway. (I spent an extra week in Paris between books reading The Paris Bookseller by Kerri Maher.) We ended our year on the deserted desert landscape with The Little Prince. 

The Hole-in-One rating (5 points)  is reserved for only the best of the best, in our opinion, and one that we would reread, rave about and encourage others to read. It must meet all of the criteria of an eagle, birdie, and par. 

**People I  consider Hole-in-One Golfers are Annika Sorenstam, Babe Didrikson Zaharias, Patty Berg, Tiger Woods, Arnold Palmer, and Jack Nicklaus. 

There were no books on our selected list that received this rating in 2022.

An Eagle rating (4 points)  says it is superb, exciting, and well worth reading. It meets all of the requirements for par and birdie, plus it is a book we will long remember for perhaps different reasons. We would highly recommend it to others.

**People I consider Eagle Golfers are Mickey Wright, Se Ri Pak, Karrie Webb, Ben Hogan, Sam Snead, and Gary Player. 

The Lincoln Highway

A Birdie rating (3 points) meets all of the criteria of a Par plus it creates excellent discussion based on a powerful theme, or other elements of fiction.

**People I consider Birdie Golfers are Kathy Whitworth, Nancy Lopez, In Bee Park, Bobby Jones, Roy Mc Illroy, and Seve Ballesteros . 

The Henna Artist by Alka Joshi  Birdie

The Ladies #1 Detective Agency

 

The Dictionary of Lost Words Birdie

Meet Me in Bombay Birdie

https://taylorjenkinsreid.com/books/daisy-jones-and-the-six/

Birdie

Secrets of the Sprakkar Birdie

The Personal Librarian Birdie

A Movable Feast Birdie

The Paris Wife Birdie

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A Par rating (2 points)  meets the expectation of the elements of fiction: a solid plot, strong and dynamic characters, setting that is defined, a theme we can discuss along with a point of view that lends itself to telling the story, and strength of genre. A Par rating for memoir asks for a compelling story using truth, theme, voice, point of view being I, and an ongoing attempt to arrive at answers. 

**All members of the Ladies Professional Golf Association and Professional Golf Association regularly shoot par and below rounds. 

PAR

The Little Prince

A Bogey rating (1 point) means a book may meet some of the elements of fiction, but overall the book is not strong enough to gather our full attention.  We would not recommend it for discussion.

The Reading List  Bogey

Golf Gypsy--The Early Years

 

1951 Independence Country club, Independence, Kansas

            North

            West                      East 

             South

The facts are few of my early childhood living on the golf course at the Independence, Ks. Country club, but the stories are full.

My parents were in their mid-thirties when I was born in Arcadia, California in 1947, and a long ways from their Kansas roots in Wichita. In those short years in the late forties both of my grandfather's died in Wichita, Kansas leaving behind two elderly grandmothers. Before long my parents made the decision to move back to Kansas and be closer to home. My mother always told me that when the earthquake that knocked her baby daughter off the bed in California she decided that Kansas and its tornadoes were where her family needed to be, not California.

By 1950 we moved to the small square house, shown above to the right of the water tower and hidden by the trees. Behind and to the right of the house was the working barn for all equipment.  The bowling alley was the long building on the West side, and the golf shop was the building south of the bowling alley.

The clubhouse on the North was magnificent from a child's point of view. The dance floor hosted many a Saturday night dance party. Mother could wear her mink stole to the dances. At Christmas times they decorated trees inside that glittered with icicles. 

The Easter bunny not only came to the country club for all of the boys and girls, but he even came into our house. He was as tall as the door and carried a basket of eggs. I think they were for my new baby sister, Jonya Lea, who had been born December 11, 1951. 

Mother said when came home from the hospital my first words were, "Put her down on the floor so I can play with her." That didn't happen on that day, but later we played outside. My favorite time with her was playing in the sandbox by the golf shop. We had two babysitters, sisters, who often watched us when mom helped dad at the club. One time Paula brought a gift she won in a Cracker Jack box. She quietly secretly took me into a closet. When it was just the right time, she opened her hands and inside was a glow in the dark skull. I screamed with excitement and ate Cracker Jacks for the next decade looking for glow in the dark toys.

Alex, a black man who was shorter and rounder than my father must have been dad's right hand man. When I wanted to learn how to bowl, at age 3-4, Alex set up the bowling alley so that my small body could roll a ball a few yards down the lane. I was always happy in the bowling alley, and the odor of the bowling alley, cigarette smoke and chalk powder, has stayed with me all of my life. Alex let me follow him around the golf shop, too.    

Mother taught me that rolling thunder in the storms was really "the potato man in heaven pushing and dropping cart loads of potatoes to the ground." As proof one day, we drove by a downtown grocery store and outside in a bin were fresh potatoes, arriving after a terrible storm the night before. Yes, the potato man had delivered them. Proof enough for a three year old.  The grocery store was owned by Vivian Vance's father. She was better known as Ethel Mertz on the I Love Lucy Show.  Mother thought that was very special.

Although the golf course was only nine holes, it did have an enormous practice area. The large green to the east of the clubhouse was part of my playground. Dad allowed me to putt and roll golf balls with my hands, but never to run on the green. With a golf club in my hand, I tramped around the rolling golf course alone or with the caddies. Playing golf kept me busy outside and near my father. 

1952 August 9

1952 The Independence Daily Reporter

(Winners of the kids' golf tournament at Independence Country club under the supervision of Miller Harmon on the left, and Johnie Stapp on the right are: four year old Letty Stapp in the Pee-Wee division... The youngsters were given theater passes to attend the Booth Theater, as prizes and also golf balls. The older set received golf merchandise at the club.)

Behind our house is where I learned to ride a two wheeled bicycle down the hill. Dad pushed me off and away I went. Like my daughter in the 1970's I crashed, busted my knees and jumped back on the blue bicycle. It didn't take long to learn to ride and enjoy the freedom that came with it. While others walked the golf course, I could sometimes ride across the fairways away from the lake area.

In the spring of 1954 my father took a position as golf professional in Miami, Oklahoma. We moved leaving behind precious memories of my times playing in sand piles behind our home; learning not to eat the beans from the Catalpa trees; discovering that snakes really do eat golf balls; loving our country club stray dogs and cats; and learning not to ever sit on a pop bottle, even if the big boys can sit on one, because the red juice at the bottom of the empty bottle might just have a bumble bee down there and bumble bees sting right through clothing and hurt a little girl's pride.