Thursday, June 25, 2020

Frisky, the Cat with Nine Lives

My creative normally playful mind is on hiatus, while I continue to strip, stain, and varnish the kitchen table. What an undertaking! Not to mention that the flowers outside are demanding my attention. 

I needed a story to sidetrack my mind and make me smile. This story of Frisky, I wrote a decade ago, but good stories need repeating. So I make this toast to you, old cat, and share your story from decades past. 


Oh, our Frisky kitty, whatever was your fate? I pray it was a gentle sleep on a warm comforter. We have lost our paper pictures of your capers and mischief, but we have not forgotten a single antic you pulled. 


Today, I remembered a picture of you that captured all of your spirited orneriness. There you were crawling out of the trash can, leaping up at an unsuspecting four year old Katy. But that was your life, always full of surprises.

You came to us from our friend, Gary, who never knew his gift might someday be the reason we called the Greensburg, Kansas fire department to rescue a black and white kitty meowing from the highest branch of the old cottonwood tree. Our trailer and yard on Nebraska Street became your playground for three adventurous years.
Birthday party, Thane, Gail, Robin, Bruce, Richardson's,
Katy and Frisky in the middle. 

It was the pink picture of you that stumped me,Frisky. Why were you stained in shades of pink? There you were on the brown and white checkered bedspread posing like a queen with a black and white fur coat, and tail wrapped around your body. Guilty you looked, but of what? Then I noticed your white underbelly and paws stained in shades of pink and red. Whatever had you played with while I was at work? 

This puzzle would soon be solved by sleuths, Katy and Gail. They were the ones who found the magic markers on the bedroom floor, opened, scratched and strewn apart. The camera shot evoked a cat charmingly innocent of all artistic endeavors. Luckily, the olive green carpet showed only a few color blends. For months your pinkness gave the neighborhood much delight.

Frisky and Squirty dog, you both chased each other back and forth on the linoleum floors of that trailer keeping us on constant alert and in cheerful moods. But once you took a dare only a cat with nine lives would take. I had been in the hospital for a week with pneumonia and came home weakened. Katy and I hugged and hugged. Then reality set in and the dirty laundry took priority. The dog must have dared you to hide in the warm dryer. I certainly didn't let you in. I did throw my newly washed gowns and underwear into the dryer. With the door closed I turned on the dryer and you, too, to twenty minutes of low heat.

I took a nap at the back of the trailer while Katy and Gail played with Barbie dolls at the front end. We heard thumps but never suspected you. At last the buzzer went off and I shuffled to the dryer. On my first reach I pulled out blood covered lingerie and promptly did what any young woman would have done. I screamed bloody murder.

Katy and Gail rounded the corner at a fast slide in time to see me pull out a wounded cat. You were covered in blood with your eyes, nose, and mouth swollen, ears broken and torn, and a tail more crooked than any tales I've ever told. You managed a weak meow. Tears of joy and fear followed.

We wrapped you in warm towels and called Nurse Arlene for help. In the coming weeks you were nursed back to health by a community of loving people. Pictures showed the before with a curling sly tail and the after, a crooked bend and kinks in a tail that would never swing nor sway the same way again.

Frisky, you, too, were the one that could have gotten me arrested, for exposing a wet nude body in the side yard, had the bath towel dropped to the ground. I'll never forget the blood curdling screams of little girls outside. Inside, I stood in the shower with only a twelve inch square trailer window open to the outside world, I heard, "Help, Letty, help. The dogs have Katy!" Dripping wet with soap sliding down my body, I stepped out of the shower grabbing the nearest towel for cover. Running outside, I saw a covey of little girls backed against the trailer and three snarling dogs at the base of the tree.

There stood Katy safe and sound, but the screams continued, "Save Kitty. Save Kitty!" With fingers pointed at the tree I saw you, Frisky. There you were, only weeks away from the dryer episode, in a feeble crawl to save your life from the ferocious teeth and paws of the barking dog
s.

What's a mother to do, but rescue the cat! My screaming and running shooed the dogs away, but there you were frozen flat to the tree, just out of reach. One ladder found in the neighbor's yard saved the day. With the ladder leaning precariously against the tree, up I crawled, step by step, one hand on the ladder and one on my knotted towel. I grabbed you by the scruff of the neck, holding you tight to my chest, and together we gingerly crawled down to solid ground.

We were all safe that day and lived to tell our versions of your escapades. Thanks for the memories, Frisky.

Tuesday, June 2, 2020

SupHer Power Golf--Putting with Confidence

My father, the Pro, said, 
"Tissy, when playing as my partner with the men on Thursday's remember
 you are responsible for paying your half of any debts for lost holes."

Making $15 every two weeks for working 7:00 am--2:00 
Tuesday-Saturday in the golf shop, didn't leave me
1965 USGA 
Jr. Girls
Championship

 much spending money in the early 1960's.  Consequently, I would much rather win money than lose money. 

He went on to add, "It could cost you a quarter a hole."

My math skills were not strong, but I could certainly figure out that I could lose $4.50 in 18 holes, or more I later learned. Pondering that with my pride, I asked, "How do I win every hole?"

"Practice your putting every day and pay attention to the break and speed."

I did practice, but I was young and worked in the golf shop, so when there was nothing else going on for a few minutes I stepped outside to putt. For the most part my dad and I tied or won our matches. One day, I will never forget, I had to hand over $.50 to Dr. Kenny Richards, my golf coach at NEO. It was a painful experience, and one that made me realize how important putting can be. 


Ever since those early years, I make time to practice my putting. I am still a very active learner when it comes to doing something better.  

Recently, I watched the SupHer Power Golf for Women zoom program on Confidence and Putting. Click on this link to watch the program (about 40 minutes). The demonstration by Nancy McDaniel, Hall of Fame Women's Golf Coach from UC Berkeley, is dynamic.  






BELIEF DRIVES CONFIDENCE

I can say that I am a confident putter, not perfect and I most certainly have unpredictable days when I putt like like the tortoise and the hare. That is when I want a tool kit to help me practice. SupHer Power Golf has given me just that, a tool kit of learning that I can follow. 

Keys to Set Up: 
  • Feet hip width apart
  • Knees, hips shoulders in alignment
  • Light grip pressure
  • EYES OVER THE BALL
Prairie Dunes CC
The keys help me while I am playing if I need an adjustment. However, if all goes wrong I know it is time to practice on the putting green correctly.

For instance, in the video (link above) Nancy McDaniel demonstrates this practice putting technique: she putts three 4' putts to a target with her normal grip; then three 4' putts using only the right hand; followed by three 4' putts using only her left hand; and finally both hands again. This shows her balance and which hand takes over, giving her a lesson in adjustment. 


Confidence is a choice, to help us 
play closer to our own potential. 

A few years ago Annika Sorenstam made a commercial that showed her in a recliner listening to a recording of a ball being struck by a putter, the soft rolling sound of the ball on the green, followed by the clinking sound the ball made when it dropped into the hole.  

If I begin to miss the target left or right (inconsistently) I realize that I am most likely peeking at the target causing my body and alignment to be off the target line. When I take a moment to think, I imagine Annika listening to her ball drop in the hole. It helps when I am playing. 

SupHer Power Golf added these Annika tips for practicing with the putter.
  • Set up properly.
  • Hit the ball once with eyes closed; twice focus on the hole; three times hit the putt regularly.
  • Listen for the ball to go in the hole.
  • Place a quarter under the ball and see it after you stroke it
So simple. Why do we insist on making this game miserably difficult? One thought is that we all have an inner critic, or in my case I call her ‘the evil twin.’ Some days and weeks the ‘evil twin’ makes the game of golf exhausting.
Downhill putt at Oakwood CC, Enid
1986


April Kenyon,USGTF Certified Golf Instructor, suggests that we can choose to merely view the inner critic, instead of following it. 

We are NOT that voice.

We are just the person observing that voice.

 

Next time I play, I plan to remember that when I hear the ‘evil twin’ I will acknowledge the voice, but realize that it is not me. I am only observing that negative voice. With my imagination I may think I hear that voice coming from a garish neon orange bucket. I will observe it and kick it. Kick it hard away from me. 

As Annika stated:


You just have to try and keep on grinding and hope that things will turn around eventually. More importantly stay patient. 

SupHer Power Golf for Women will host a zoom Virtual Play Day on Friday, July 10 at 6:00 Central Time Zone. See their Facebook page for details: SupHer Power Golf
 
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Letty Watt, golf blogger