Showing posts with label USGA Jr. Girls Championship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label USGA Jr. Girls Championship. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 30, 2023

A Father--Daughter Story

Letty, age 4, captured on 8mm film, practicing on a hot summer day in Independence, Ks. 

As I write on this hot summer day (103 in the shade), I am reminded of my childhood years at Miami Country club teeing off at 2:00 in the heat of the day, after I finished working in the golf shop. I believe we called those days "scorching hot," rather than suffering the effects of the "heat dome." There was no air conditioning downstairs in the golf shop, but we did have a huge wall fan that pulled in the fresh air through the golf shop and kept the downstairs locker rooms cool and dry.  Old Bill and I would take turns, when no one was in the shop, and go stand in front of the blowing air to cool down our bodies. 

Occasionally, on Thursday afternoon's Dad would ask me to join his group of Kenny Richards, Marion Zajic, and Charlie Trussler, Doc Jackson and others. By 1965, after graduating from Miami High school, my handicap stayed in the low single digits. Playing golf with the men and having to hand over a 50 cent piece, if I lost a bet, made me a better competitor. Having a low handicap, also, opened the door for me to play in the USGA Jr. Girls Championship at Hiwan Golf Course in Evergreen, Colorado.  

Dad and I drove through Wichita, Kansas to pick up his sister, Della, and drove on to Evergreen, Colorado that day (without AC in the station wagon). Imagine our delight when we arrived in the cool mountain air. I played one practice round at Hiwan with dad and took copious notes along with the handout from the pro shop.


 

The two days of qualifying were the greatest eye openers of my short life. My tee shot could not reach the fairway. The fairway began 100 yards off the tee box. Dad and I had practiced it and so I knew to use my MacGregor 5 wood to hit out of the rough. Because I had been chipping golf balls in the evenings to clean up the driving range I was, and still am, very good at hitting the golf ball close to the pin.  I one putted many greens in those two days, but often finished the holes with bogies, not  pars.  Even though I did not make the cut line, I met some of the most dynamic young girls from all over the country, including Canada.

 

We played the golf course at 3,544 yards on the front nine, 3,568 yards on the back nine for 7.112 dynamic massive yards.

That last day I watched as my dad allowed tears to trickle down his face when I posted my score. They were tears of pride not disgust. Discovering how proud my father and his sister were of my game of golf and fortitude that day made me feel like I could climb a mountain. I had never won a championship in our Oklahoma Junior events. My dream was to make people at the club proud of me. Attaching dreams to goals is not easy for a teenager. 

On a humorous note, I realize that my short game became my strength because the temperatures in July and August soared to the high 90's and 100's regularly, making it, too, miserable to hit hundreds of golf balls in the afternoon.  Salt tablets and gallons of water from water spigots on the golf course kept us going. Mother learned about serving Tang in the mornings to her active family, and that helped us better survive the heat. 

Golf Gypsy: My Mother's Words explains how much my mother suffered through those growing years with Jonya and me. 

L to R: Rinda Koppitz, Vicki Bell, .., Janice Bell.. 
Letty Stapp On the steps of the Broadmoor
Golf Course and Hotel (1966) 


During the summers of 1966 and 1967 I traveled with friends to Colorado Springs to play in the Broadmoor Ladies Invitational tournament. We never had the money to stay at the hotel, but we did manage quite well in a nearby stucco cottage motel sitting by a fast flowing stream from the mountains. During those summers my game was strong and solid, but the head game didn't develop until I was well into my fifties. I missed qualifying for Championship flight over and over. However, I learned that the other women in "President's Flight" or "A flight" with me were just as discouraged at their plight as I, and so the competition remained strong.

*Instagram: @golfgypsyok 

I found three old 8mm films that my father took at MGCC and elsewhere. I have converted them over the years to VHS, CD, and now a Flash Drive. This last attempt took several hours of viewing to see what we wanted to save. In the process, I discovered these old family videos from the early 1950’s when my father was the pro at Independence CC, Kansas. The blurry attempt came when I paused and took a photo of the picture on the screen, but the moment is captured and I felt proud of that childhood swing…which I would dearly love to have again. 

 

Saturday, December 14, 2019

Vanity is Sanity

Dance Recital at the Coleman Theater.

All these many years my legs have pulled me through the
  times of growing pains and comparisons.
A Twiggy or Brook Shields I will never be.
When pimples and body fat appeared on my body,
  I winced and groaned as I looked in the mirror.
Sighing heavily, I shaved my legs while humming:
     
     “What the world needs now is love sweet love.
     It’s the only thing that there’s just too little of…”

                                 Lyrics by Burt Bacharach and Hal David
                                   What the World Needs Now (click to hear the music) 


USGA Jr. Girls Championship. 



  
Through childhood and college years these legs kicked and danced in recitals and drill teams.

They walked golf courses and campuses supporting golf clubs or books.










During the decades of raising kids, it was my legs that pushed me forward,
  that withstood days when I felt like buckling.
Our family Saturday outings took us to the Duck Pond where we jogged
  around the workout/walking path or ran the track,
Teaching our children the importance of commitment to fresh air and
  movement.
My legs glistened in the summer heat,
  reminding me that they held me fast to the ground, like roots of the trees.

Watching a lengthy downhill putt on #6 at Oakwood CC, Enid. 


For a decade I wore short skirts, just to show off my legs,
  a mere glance at my vanity. 
The next few decades I wore mid-length skirts and shorts, but by my fifties
  my knock knees caved inward, my feet gave out
  with arches falling and toes twisting.
What’s a girl to do?
"Vanity is sanity," the older women told me when I was young.
 I began to understand.
 
I dared myself in my sixties to wear skorts on the golf course,
  and sometimes felt self-conscious when I bent over to line up a putt.
I looked around and gained confidence watching women carry themselves
  proudly on the golf course in stylish clothing.
Vanity is sanity, I began to see it in their faces and posture.
Letty and Dawn laughing and posing in
 Bitch Wings at Belmar CC. 


One day, as I danced a step of joy after making a lengthy putt, my left heal 
  kicked my right shin bone, oh ouch!
It bruised immediately showing a bold blood red and purple splotch. 
  What happened?
Another day my dog pawed me with affection leaving a streak of dark
  red bruising down my leg, the next day it was my arms that bruised.
The decades were showing signs of aging, my skin was no longer lush 
  and rich with collagen. 
Don't they make a pill for this, I screamed in my head.
  It was pills for back pain that thinned the skin!
Vanity is sanity. Now I understand.

No defeat for a woman who walks with confidence.


     “I am woman hear me roar….
      You can bend but never break me
      ‘Cause it only serves to make me
      More determined to achieve my final goal
      And I come back even stronger
      Not a novice any longer
      Cause you’ve deepened the conviction in my soul.”
                                             Lyrics by Helen Reddy and Ray Burton
                                               I Am Woman (click to hear the music) 

There are clothes for this:  fitted pants still show the legs but not the scars.
These legs of mine stand strong but bruised.
  I work them out regularly at the gym keeping my posture upright.
Then treat them with tender loving care and lotions galore both night and day.
Vanity is sanity. Now I understand.

MHS Class of 65, Letty and Donna dancing the golf rock and roll. 

How long these legs will carry me, is one of the mysteries of our lives.
I can't prevent the effects of aging but I can love who I am.
Heading into the grays of the approaching winter days and decades,
  I am proud to be a Baby Boomer breaking in another decade.
Now I understand. Loving yourself is not vanity, it is sanity.
Glancing out to the North Sea off the coast of Scotland.